Redundancy isn’t a bad word

Redundancy.It's often seen as a dirty word.I've come across a few people over the past few weeks who have been affected in some way by current redundancies - there are A LOT here in New Zealand at the moment.It's very easy to view redundancy as bad and to feel our insecurities around money and the … Continue reading Redundancy isn’t a bad word

No one can make you feel anything

When I was in an emotionally abusive relationship, one of the behaviours my ex had was... [note - trigger warning] ...telling me how my behaviour and feelings affected him and how, as a result, I wasn't allowed to act or feel that way because of this. This mostly revolved around the feeling of stress. I … Continue reading No one can make you feel anything