How do you talk to yourself? Like a bully or with love?

"You’re so uncool. You’re boring. You’re stupid. You’re so not attractive."All things I've previously told myself."Why do you think you could do that? Those people are better than me. I should be more like them. I'm just not good enough."All things I've previously told myself."I've failed before so therefore it proves I can't do this. … Continue reading How do you talk to yourself? Like a bully or with love?

It’s not about overcoming self-doubt, it’s about mastering it

I was talking to my fiance recently about self-doubt - specifically mine. For most of my life I've suffered from chronic self-doubt, which has held me back and stopped me doing loads of things - I've turned down invitations to cool events because I'd be going by myself, didn't take an ecology paper at university … Continue reading It’s not about overcoming self-doubt, it’s about mastering it